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Cartoon by Hugh MacLeod

I’m going to make this short and sweet.

It is 4:49 a.m. and I just bounced out of bed to write a blog post.

???

It occurred to me that perhaps the reason I’ve gone from blogging almost daily to hardly at all over the last couple of months is that writing was my outlet…until I started running again.

I fell in love with distance running about ten years ago and since then have run six half-marathons and completed the training for two full marathons. (A half marathon is 13.1 miles; a full is 26.2.)

I say “completed the training for two full marathons” because I have yet to run the race itself; the first time I was severely injured during the “taper” phase two weeks before the race, and the second time I came down with pneumonia three days before the day of the race.

DON’T EVEN GET ME STARTED.

Anyway.

I haven’t run much the last couple of years and was inspired to start again after Thanksgiving. I’ve now got a pretty good foundation again and am starting to increase my mileage in preparation for a half-marathon at the end of April.

I love distance running because I can just lace up my shoes and go. I can let my mind wander while I put one foot in front of the other…sometimes for hours on end depending on how many miles I plan to get in that day. It’s always been my best thinking time, and really, my best outlet when I am frustrated, mad, sad, having a bad day, have information I need to process, a problem to solve, or an issue to address.

It occurred to me as I was tossing and turning in bed with insomnia and a boat load of stuff on my mind that maybe running has taken the place of writing for me lately?

And then I started thinking.

Everyone must have an outlet of some sort…a way to cope and sort things out when needed; you know, to deal with LIFE.

If running and writing are mine, what are other peoples’ outlets?

I’m seriously curious; what are yours?

How do you people deal with life??

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Welcome to 2010 folks.

The only thing that makes me sad about leaving 2009 behind and starting this #glorious new year is that Bobby Bowden is no longer the football coach at my alma mater, Florida State University.

I know FSU has sucked in football for quite a while now and a lot of people blame Coach Bowden for that, but I never have, and never will, and I’m sad to see him retire.

We all have ups and downs throughout our careers and if you think you are the exception then please write to me in the comments and tell me all about it and I’ll be the judge. If I think you’re right I might even send you a prize. I have a whole box of fantastic career-related books from some great authors that I will never find the time to read due to such a ridiculously short attention span, so you never know.

Anyway, I graduated from FSU in 1993 and that was the year that FSU won the National Champtionship in football for the very first time. I remember so clearly how Bobby was always accused the next day in every newspaper around of “running up the score.” I mean, the scores of games with even our toughest opponents were like 70-7 -- if it wasn’t a complete shut-out -- and the accusations were hilarious to me as he literally had the third string in by the time we started third quarter if not the water boys too.

Those years -- the early 90s -- were the heyday for FSU football and, I have to tell you, did we [the students] ever enjoy every second of that ride! I can only hope that you, too, had such an amazing time in college as I did — and for us football [and the subsequent parties] was a big part of that!

So tonight I find it fitting to pay tribute to Bobby Bowden upon his final win (!) and his retirement.

Thank you, Coach Bowden, for all your dedication and hard work all these years, and for all you brought to the students, faculty, alumni, and fans of FSU…we wish you many, many years of relaxation and enjoyment with your family and friends in your retirement.

We love you Coach Bowden!

A note of caution: this video made me cry. Actual tears. It’s bittersweet, and definitely worth watching.

You have been properly warned! ;-)

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Cartoon by Hugh MacLeod

Cartoon by Hugh MacLeod

My grandmother is 87 years old, and she’s one of the most opinionated people I know.

She says a lot of really funny things, and I think what’s funniest is that she truly doesn’t realize the irony.

Anyway, it’s the holidays, and everyone is thinking and talking about family, so I thought I’d share a couple of these delicious  little morsels with you.

You know, since I didn’t bake anything for you…

By the way…her name is Dorothy, but because I couldn’t say that when I was learning to talk, I called her Do (pronounced like doe a deer), and it’s stuck ever since.

§  §  §  §  §

Do: Oh, there’s that Hillary [Clinton] [on TV] again.

Do: I can’t stand that woman.

Me:

Do: Every time I see her I just want to punch her.

Do: Kick her in the teeth.

Me:

Me: I seem to recall you saying the same thing about Barack Obama, and then you voted for him.

Do, a life-long Republican: Well, who was I supposed to vote for…JOHN MCCAIN??

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Do: I just don’t know what’s going to happen to this country.

Me:

Do: I hear they’re not going to bail out the automakers.

Me: Yep.

Me: Good.

Do: Well, what are we going to do? HOW WILL ANYONE HAVE ANY CARS??

Me: There are, um, other automakers, you know…

Do, disgusted at the thought of anyone buying a non-US car: WELL.

Me: Besides. Those factories aren’t going to just sit there.

Me: New companies will be formed with better business plans and cars that people want to buy.

Me: They’ll retool the factories, and rehire and retrain the workers.

Do, obviously thinking way back in time:  We used to have the nicest Chevys…and Buicks…

Me: Well, the quality isn’t there any more, and those companies are doing poorly because of it.

Do:

Do:

Do: You know what?

Do: You’re right.

Do: That Buick I have out there is a piece of JUNK!!

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Do: I really like your new car…

Me: Thanks!

Me: I didn’t think you’d like it since it’s German.

Do: No, they’re not German.

Me:

Do: BMW stands for British Motor Works.

Me:

Me, trying to keep a straight face: Oh.

Me: Yes.

Me: Right.

Me: It does!

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Cartoon by Hugh MacLeod

Cartoon by Hugh MacLeod

I was so happy to stumble upon this article in the Wall Street Journal, “The Relentless Rise of Power Jeans: World Leaders and Executives Wear Them (Mostly Well); How to Get Denim Right.”

I love, love, love to wear jeans, and for nine or ten months out of the year I wear them pretty much every day.

While I know that a lot of some people are going to might disagree with me on this, I believe that jeans can have a place in the workplace and other professional environments, and that they don’t have to compromise your image. In fact, worn well, I think they can enhance your image and allow you to make a statement.

I always wear dark jeans because they are dressier and I think they just look nicer, and for networking and other professional situations that don’t require a suit or even dress, skirt, or pants, I like to pair them with a dressy top and heels, or maybe a sweater, suede jacket, and a pair of boots in the wintertime. I like boot cut and trouser cut jeans that allow for a heel and still have a nice leg that’s not too tight or casual looking.

Power jeans are increasingly common in high-ranking business and political circles. Indeed, jeans are now a legitimate part of the global power-dress lexicon, worn to influential confabs where the wearers want to signal they’re serious—but not fussy—and innovative.

The look started with the young but has crossed into gray-haired circles. In preparation for a meeting with the U.S. president of Swiss watchmaker IWC, Larry Seiden, a 56-year-old fine-watch collector from San Jose, Calif., bought a pair of black Agave jeans from a high-end boutique. “They tailored them for me and I have to tell you, I really love them,” he says. “Now I’m thinking of getting another pair in blue denim.”

The author goes on to talk about where jeans can have a place, and where they may not be so appropriate.

“Jeans are recruiting new fans among even dressy executives…chosen well, jeans can suggest the wearer is confident and modern. Traditionally cut blue jeans carry a whiff of the laborer about them, so denim on a leader suggests a willingness to roll up the sleeves and dig in. There’s also something of the rebel in a pair of jeans. In the boardroom, that can read as creative.

But jeans must be carefully paired with a pressed shirt and good shoes to be elevated to business class. And some industries haven’t (yet) become open to denim as power wear. Banks and accounting-firm boardrooms, for instance, remain decidedly woolen. New York-based career adviser Jonscott Turco says jeans are generally a “no-brainer” in the media, manufacturing and creative industries, but not in financial services and law firms.

Power jeans may best be left to the executives in mixed-rank groups. Being a junior person wearing jeans in a room full of pinstripes could spell “youthful blunder.” Perhaps the best rule is that of the high-priced boutique: If you have to ask, you can’t afford to wear them.”

The WSJ article provides some excellent tips on how to get jeans right in the workplace:

…getting power jeans right involves lots of no’s. No distressed jeans at work. No metal studs. No acid washes. No lavish embroidery. No boot cut. No skinny. No pedal pushers, shorts or cutoffs. No baggy high-rise. No super-low-rise. No holes. And no fussy ironing.”

If you want to wear jeans, I think you can in certain situations. Just like with anything you’re going to wear in a professional environment, be sure that they fit well and are flattering – and not tight! Have them tailored if you need to.

Your professional wardrobe always requires thought, care, and investment. Denim is no exception!

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An homage to the men who support their ambitious women

October 20, 2009

When I was in my twenties I dated  – and almost married – a man who was super supportive of my career.
Right up until 5:00 p.m.
And then he wanted me to be home and have dinner on the table.
We met right out of college in training to be financial consultants with a regional brokerage firm. [...]

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The pink elephant in the room

October 14, 2009

For several years I worked as an account manager managing rewards programs for major banks, retailers, and credit card companies.
I was hired in to the company at a VP level, and my first day there I met the SVP who managed the company’s call center operations. She took the initiative to introduce herself to me [...]

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When the young waitress started crying at our table we knew it was time to go

October 13, 2009

This headline grabbed my attention this morning in my SmartBrief on Entrepreneurs daily newsletter: Entrepreneurs, know when to bend your rules.

The article starts with a Q + A.

Q: “I will ask yet again: Can I have the check now please? We just want to get out of this restaurant already.” — Steve

A: [...]

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The David Letterman “scandal” | It’s just sex people.

October 11, 2009

It’s Sunday morning and I’m watching CNN’s weekly program “State of the Union” and they are debating the David Letterman “scandal.”
I put scandal in quotes because I think this entire discussion is utterly ridiculous.
In case you’ve been living under a rock I am referring to the “sextortion” plot by CBS producer, Robert Joel “Joe” Halderman, [...]

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HopeATL | Helping Atlanta’s flood victims

October 3, 2009

Today I took enough clothes, shoes, and linens to fill an entire closet to a HopeATL volunteer location outside of Atlanta and several people have asked me for information on the organization so I thought I’d provide it here.
From the website it looked as though the one I went to today is the closest if [...]

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The animals need you | Animal Rescue

September 25, 2009

In honor of my dog Jake’s fifth birthday today I’m writing about animal rescue.
I adopted Jake from an Atlanta-based rescue organization when he was 13 weeks old. He’d been found abandoned in a ditch along with two other little boy puppies who looked just like him.
I’d recently lost my dog, Bear, and could not stand [...]

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Can I trust you?

September 24, 2009

One of the highlights of my day is seeing Seth Godin’s new blog posts each morning. I love love love this one which was delivered earlier this week:
Everyone gets paid on commission
The Washington Post recently laid off a columnist because his blog posts didn’t get enough web traffic.
Of course, in the old [...]

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How far will you go?

September 18, 2009

Yesterday Laurie Ruettimann wrote an incredibly brave post on her blog, Punk Rock HR.
Some of you know that my mother is sick, but for the rest of you, here are the basic details. I stepped off a plane on Friday the 11th and heard the news that my mother was rushed to the hospital with [...]

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